Boyfriend Lied About Spending Time With His Ex-girlfriend?
I have know my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. We broke up for 9 months & during that time he had a very intense on-again, of-again relationship with another woman. She ended things with him 2 or 3 times & each time he would contact me & keep our relationship going. Then 7 months into our break up, she made him call me in front of her family & treat me like I was nothing to him. I told him off & that I was finished. I didn’t see or hear from him for 3 months. In the mean time, my heart was broken. Three months later he contacted me (their relationship was over again) & we resumed our relationship slowly. Part of our difficulty before was that our relationship used to be long distance, but I relocated over 700 miles to live with him after 7 more months of dating. The ex contacted him several times & I finally put my foot down & let him know that our relationship had no where to go if she continued to remain on the sidelines. He chose me & I moved 4 months later. Fast forward two years… now I’ve just learned he lied to me about what time he flew in from a business trip & he shows up at home a day early with a lipstick stain on his shirt. This hurts me deeply & even more so because our baby recently died in a cord accident when I was 7 1/2 months pregnant. In fact, he chose to see her on our baby’s due date. How do I handle this situation that leaves it open to work on the relationship?
Tags: About, Boyfriend, Exgirlfriend, Lied, Spending, Time, With
November 5th, 2009 at 8:43 pm
This is a really difficult situation, but you need to leave him you deserve someone who will respect you an treat you right. He obviously does not respect you especially if he humiliated you in front of his ex’s family. He see’s you as his fail safe, you will be there for him when his x is not. His heart (no matter how cold it is) belongs to her.
It is a horrible devastating thing what happened with your child, but everything happens for a reason. he is not cut out to be a father is is obviously way too selfish.
I hope you do your self true & leave him. Men do NOT change no matter what the situation. Go out & find a man who deserves you.
November 6th, 2009 at 1:47 am
A liar is a liar… If it’s in him, he’ll do it no matter what he promises. I don’t suggest trying to fix things & make it work with a liar, they end up lying about a lot of things because of their selfishness. My Ex was this way, I tried for 5 yrs & I gave up… I don’t deserve to be lied to & neither do you, be with someone honest & someone that cares about your feelings instead of someone who lives a double life.
November 6th, 2009 at 6:25 am
if he lied about this, & you let him get away with it, he’ll lie to you for the rest of your life.Do him a favor, teach him a lession & dump him.
November 6th, 2009 at 10:25 am
He is a selfish man. If you continue this relationship you will probably be more sorry than you are now. You can try & work it out by talking but seems he’s not willing to listen to what you want. He will lie & you will accept it. Accepting lies is the only way to work it out, sorry but that’s how I see it
November 6th, 2009 at 11:55 am
this other woman might always be in your life,if u can’t trust him its hard to have a relationship. i think u have way too much confidence in this man, & really believe working on things will change him. love isn’t suppose to hurt & be full of constant distrust. seems as if he wants both of u in his life.
September 5th, 2010 at 7:47 am
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